Beyond The Order (And Blah Blah Blah)
So this week the long awaited research “Beyond The Order” came out. A thorough and excellent piece of work from Julie Selwyn and her colleagues at Bristol University. Funded by the Government it...
View ArticleKafkaesque Doesn’t Come Close
My heads been spinning of late. Trying to make sense of the relentless assault on the psyche of hearing of the abuse of children on a mass scale. Abuse going unchallenged at best and colluded with at...
View ArticleMy Name Is Jazz: Triggers
So we call the things what set me off triggers and that anger is what we call the volcan over flowing And what kind off things set me off r things like having flash backs seeing blood or clowns...
View ArticleInside Out (Trauma Stylee)
Inside Out Anxiety is some think in body that sets your heart rate up. what happens to me when I’m anxious is I talk to much I smoke to much and I get hevery breathing nd I start shaking nd I wet my...
View ArticleSolutions
I know we at ‘The Trauma Train’ are not always known as blogging about the happier sides of adoption, but we always try to let the love and truth of our family life shine through. The truth is not...
View ArticleWe Are Not Having A Breakdown….But
It’s been a week of talking to adoptive parents who have called The Open Nest in very very difficult circumstances. People who really don’t know what to do about keeping themselves and their children...
View ArticleThe Teenager Who Felt Nothing But Scared
When I was a teenager I fell like no one was thear for me and I felt out of control and like I was going to kill some one because I would kick and punch and throw the glass at people and put windows...
View ArticleJazz Blog: Unconditional Love
The mother how had unconditional love for her girl but could not cope. When I was first born I had some problems but we are not saw what. my mum love me so much but could not cope because her mum had...
View ArticleSupport For Violent Children: What Next? (Part Two)
We have seen our previous blogs about violent children and how to support them reach thousands of people. Of all the blogs we share on adoption related topics, the ones that talk about violence in...
View ArticleNot In Our Name
The Daily Mail article (link below) on adoption support, or lack of it, really woke us from the Christmas bubble with a start. A very rude awakening and a stark reminder of the differing cultures...
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